Reset Reactor Residency™
Destination with Distinction. Integration with Completion.
Blossom: Becoming You™
March 15–20, 2027 | Five Nights
Reset Reactor Residency™
San Juan, Puerto Rico
Spring is the Start Line.
WE COME HERE TO UNPACK MORE THAN LUGGAGE
You arrive with a suitcase. But there is more you have been carrying.
The relationship you keep trying to make easier by asking for less. The idea you have revised so many times that you can barely remember how excited you were to begin. The responsibility you accepted because you were capable, then kept because everyone learned to expect it.
Together, we step directly into the Reset Reactor Rhythm™, tracing your dominant identity through the real landscape of your daily life: your Love, your Sex, and your Money.
In love, you may have become so good at understanding someone else that you stopped expecting to be understood.
In your purpose, you may know what you want to create through you and still hesitate to let anyone see it.
In money, you may keep proving your value through effort while finding it difficult to ask, receive, or decide without guilt.
You know what you keep doing. You may even know why. Yet when the familiar moment arrives, the old response can still take over.
Here, your bags come down. You have space to hear yourself before you start responding to everyone else. You do ’t have to rush the conversation, you can stay present for the meal, and you can notice what happens when your needs are allowed to matter.
That is where we begin the Reset Reactor Residency™.
Your inquiry is the first step in a personally reviewed invitation process. Submission does not guarantee acceptance or reserve a suite.
WHAT CHANGES DURING YOUR RESIDENCY?
BLOSSOM: BECOMING YOU™
Reset Reactor Residency™ | Puerto Rico
It doesn't happen all at once; it happens in the quiet, undeniable moments when you realize you aren't fighting yourself. Perhaps it happens as you walk back to your room for something you forgot at your first point of entry.
A season comes when the life you have mastered no longer feels like the life you are meant to live.
Perhaps you have become the dependable woman, the provider, the peacekeeper, the achiever, or the one who always knows how to carry everyone through. These identities may have protected you, helped you succeed, and earned you a place in the world. But what happens when the woman you became out of necessity is no longer the woman you desire to be?
Blossom: Becoming You™ is the Spring expression of the Reset Reactor Rhythm™, an intimate residential initiation into authentic identity, conscious choice, and your authority across Love, Sex & Money within a private-membership-only wellness resort.
Maybe it hits you after the next morning's breakfast: receiving can stop feeling like a threat to your strength, tenacity, knowledge, and independence; your body finally exhales, relaxes, and your nervous system begins to calm and soothe you without breathwork or meditation.
It could be that during the first day, in a breakout immersion, our walking tour through Old San Juan, or in that quiet moment on the beach, where you’re surrounded by others who are also undoing the same self-abandonment, you decide you’re no longer willing to be the instrument overriding your truth or your body when it registers, just to get through the day, but instead become the very compass guiding your next decision.
In the Reset Reactor Residency™, you access an integration system that supports you through life's cyclical transitions as money moves and life changes on a moment's notice, so your nervous system stays solid. grounded.
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Welcome Blossom: Becoming You™ in
Puerto Rico
THIS IS NOT A RETREAT. IT IS A RESET REACTOR RESIDENCY™.
March 15–20, 2027 | Five Nights | Isla Verde, San Juan, Puerto Rico
Stay Long Enough to Practice the Woman Who Wakes Up Tomorrow
A beautiful setting gives you room to exhale. The Residency gives us time to work with what happens after that first release, when the familiar explanation returns, when you apologize for a need, or when you begin negotiating away the decision you felt so clear about yesterday.
You live inside the Reset with me. We work together in guided sessions and private strategy. We return to what you are discovering through shared meals, reflection, conversation, and the ordinary moments in which your identity becomes visible.
I want to meet the woman who wakes up the next morning. I want to help her notice what her mind tried to reinstall overnight, and give her a way to choose before the old pattern becomes another familiar day.
You begin practicing your new response here, with support, before carrying it into the life waiting at home.
Your inquiry is the first step in a personally reviewed invitation process. Submission does not guarantee acceptance or reserve a suite.
Reset Reactor Residency™ Pathway
EXPERIENCE SAN JUAN. YOUR PRIVATE SANCTUARY.
#1 -The Room Where You Meet Yourself Again
Your suite is not merely where you sleep between sessions. It is where you return after an honest conversation, where you notice what your body says when no one needs anything from you, and where each day's insight becomes a decision you can rehearse privately.
Here, the morning and evening are part of the Reset.
The property's natural materials, French-oak king beds, and warm modern design bring a tactile calm to the experience. These are room categories and design details, not different levels of access to the transformation. Every resident participates in the same core Residency; the view is a personal preference, subject to confirmed inventory.
#2 - A Wider Inner-World to Explore
A shared Residency experience invites curiosity, pleasure, beauty, and the practice of expressing your genuine preferences.
#3 - Private Beachfront Property
This world-class wellness resort provides private beach access to enjoy throughout your stay.
Reset Reactor Residency™ | Puerto Rico
March 15–20, 2027 | Five Nights
THE CITY VIEW KING SUITE - 3195.00
The Grounding
The Terra-inspired suite blends rustic materiality with modern sensibility: an approximately 300-square-foot room, a substantial French-oak king bed, a two-chair seating area facing the city, and a distinctive glass shower. These details invite you to appreciate the simple confidence of being well cared for in your own space.
City life beyond the window reminds you that your real life will still be waiting after this Residency. In the morning, sit with your notes and ask which responsibility is genuinely yours to carry. In the evening, let the day's truths become one grounded action you can take when you return home.
This is your practice of rooting a new identity in the life you actually live.
CITY/OCEAN VIEW KING SUITE - 3395.00
The Threshold
The Habitat-inspired suite combines rustic materials with contemporary comfort, an approximately 300-square-foot layout, a French-oak king bed, an eye-catching glass shower, and a cozy two-chair area with views of the city and sea.
It represents the beautiful threshold where the familiar world and a more spacious possibility meet.
Here, you do not have to reject everything you have built in order to become yourself. Look toward the city and honor the resourcefulness that carried you here. Look toward the water and consider what no longer has to define you.
At night, write down what you are retaining by choice and what you are ready to release.
Becoming does not erase your history; it changes who has authority over your next decision
OCEAN VIEW KING SUITE - 3895.00
The Expanding Horizon
For residents choosing an ocean-facing category, the water remains a visual companion beyond the beach. From the comfort of a king suite, its horizon becomes a daily invitation to consider possibilities larger than the roles you once accepted as permanent.
The vendor's oceanfront king category describes a French-oak king bed and a small seating area overlooking the sea. Exact suite assignment and view remain subject to confirmation.
Each morning, let your gaze travel beyond what feels known. Ask yourself what you might choose if you no longer measured your future by an old limitation. Return in the evening to notice one decision in which you allowed that wider perspective to inform your behavior.
Expansion is no longer only an inspiring idea; it becomes something you practice.
Your submission is not an approval. This is just the first step in the application process. You will receive direct communication once you complete your application. A 10% deposit is required to reserve your room.
Five Days of Blossom: Becoming You™ — From Recognition to Initiation
March 15–20, 2027 | Five Nights
Our five-day Spring experience unfolds March 15–19, with departure March 20. The experiences below reflect each day's teaching intention. Specific activity timing, locations, and private-session assignments remain subject to final confirmation.
DAY ONE — MONDAY, MARCH 15 - The Arrival
“Come as You Are. Put Down Who You Had to Be.”
Your first initiation is not into a new performance but out of the pressure to perform.
After you arrive and settle into your suite, celebrate who you’ve been and meet and greet who you are becoming, along with the other women for this Spring Reset Reactor Rhythm™. Each one of you will join an experience that will bond you into sisterhood. Join the Residency sacred container, where we honor what you leave behind and keep it safe.
As the evening closes, return to your room and notice how it feels to have a space where nothing is being asked of you. The first night is permission to recognize your own presence.
Soul Inquiry: Who did I become because life required it, and who is here beneath those obligations?
Your Practice: Begin the Identity I Carried / Identity I Choose reflection. Name one role you can set down for these five days.
DAY TWO — TUESDAY, MARCH 16 - The Recognition
“See the Old Identity Without Handing It Your Future.”
Our first fully planned day Immersion explores your Truth Audit in where you have overgiven protection or avoided yourself across Love, Sex & Money in your business, purpose, career, self, and most importantly, your birthright.
In Love, notice the attachment to being needed, understanding everyone, or remaining agreeable. In Sex, notice your authority, pleasure, embodied power, and creative life; notice where your desires were edited for approval.
In Money, recognize where instability, proving, rescuing, or fear of receiving has written the rules of your choices.
Guided teaching, methodology, group dialogue, and scheduled private individual strategy help distinguish your Soul's desires from survival strategies you learned.
Between sessions, we pause rather than rush to repair what you discover. That evening, take the map back to your suite and name the single pattern that most needs a new decision.
Soul Inquiry: What does my former identity still believe it must do to deserve love, safety, authority, or abundance?
Your Practice: Complete your Authentic Identity Recognition Map and select an interruptible behavior for the remainder of the Residency.
DAY THREE — WEDNESDAY, MARCH 17 - The Receiving
“Meet the Woman Who No Longer Must Earn Her Joy.”
Our planned Old San Juan Walking Tour excursion brings the work into real life.
Among art, architecture, new tastes, conversation, and spontaneous discoveries, you are invited to express what you want instead of quietly following the group's momentum. Here, you’ll learn to practice enjoyment, pleasure, freedom, and your expression without earning it first.
Notice the impulse to organize, rescue, pay for everyone, or make yourself smaller, so others are comfortable.
Later, we’ll meet up again for a rooftop group dinner; sisterhood becomes part of the lesson: being present, sharing, and receiving without calculating what you owe in return.
Before sleep, write about an experience you allowed yourself simply because you desired it.
Soul Inquiry: What happens in my body when pleasure, beauty, generosity, or attention arrive without a demand for repayment?
Your Practice: Honor one authentic preference, receive one gesture without immediately compensating, and document the old response you interrupted.
DAY FOUR — THURSDAY, MARCH 18 - The Embodiment
“Let Your Body Experience the Authority Your Voice Is Reclaiming.”
Our planned beachside invite brings the Rest Reactor from the Mind into the body through movement and meditation. Breathe in the ocean air to soothe and calm your nervous system and notice the difference between a genuine yes and the yes you offer to avoid tension; between rest that restores you and stillness that makes you feel guilty.
Gentle Tantric yoga, Somatic Breathwork, and Akashic Meditations help you make reset choices you can own. This is also a day to be tender toward the woman who protected you and to forgive her for holding on too tightly. Here, you can determine what you become.
On this day, I will offer private one-on-one sessions to deepen your personal embodiment of the Reset Reactor framework.
Soul Inquiry: If my body, desires, and inner knowing were allowed equal authority with my obligations, what would change today?
Your Practice: Write your New Authority Declaration and rehearse one small decision from your emerging identity.
DAY FIVE — FRIDAY, MARCH 19 - The Initiation
“Become the Woman Who Can Meet Her Own Life Differently.”
We begin with planned morning energetic healing and meditation immersion for the final integration.
Our final half-day Blossom: Becoming You Reset Reactor turns insight into an Identity Exit Strategy: the old contract you are ending, the relational and financial decisions that require a new response, and the choices you will repeat when ordinary life gets demanding again. And the development of your 30/60/90-day direction with concrete actions, audits, and checkpoints for maintenance when you return home.
Later, we’ll meet oceanfront for a closing ceremony celebration, which marks a conscious threshold, not a promise that every challenge will disappear, but a commitment to stop surrendering your authority when old emotions return.
The emerging woman is no longer just a vision. She has a practice, language, and first action.
Soul Inquiry: What will I no longer ask my former identity to decide on my behalf?
Your Practice: Complete your Identity Exit Strategy, choose your first 72-hour action, and make your Spring initiation commitment.
DEPARTURE — SATURDAY, MARCH 20 - The Return
“Do Not Leave Yourself Here. This was not an escape.”
After breakfast and checkout, per the confirmed property schedule, you return to your world with more than beautiful memories. But you will also carry what you have birthed as your Blossom: Becoming you Reset Reactor Rhythm, with a brand-new Recognition Map, Authority Declaration, Identity Exit Strategy, and 30/60/90 practical next steps.
The woman you have begun living here deserves to be met again in the ordinary moments at home.
THE PUERTO RICO RESET REACTO RESIDENCY™ BLOSSOM: BECOMING YOU™ MARCH 15-20, 2027
The Reset Reactor Rhythm™
Puerto Rico Residency
Not Simply a Breakthrough. An Identity You Can Begin Living.
Blossom is the beginning of a new relationship with yourself. Your personal work is designed to produce tools you can return to after Puerto Rico, when your usual demands, relationships, and decisions resume.
An Authentic Identity Recognition Map. Identify which roles and protective identities once served you, where they still make decisions on your behalf, and the self you are ready to author consciously.
A Love, Sex & Money Truth Audit. Recognize how the old identity operates differently through connection, authority, creativity, receiving, and financial choice.
An Interruption and Recovery Practice. Learn to notice an activating moment, regulate your response, interrupt the inherited script, and choose again without waiting for perfect confidence.
An Initiation Decision. Name the tangible beginning you will no longer postpone and take a first step before you leave.
An Identity Exit Strategy. Define what you will stop rehearsing, what you will practice instead, and how you will respond when familiar surroundings invite your old behavior back.
A 30/60/90-Day Personal Integration Direction. Carry home practical commitments and review points that help the new behavior become familiar in ordinary life.
The Experience of Being Witnessed Without Performance. Through shared meals, conversations, reflection, and moments of stillness, practice allowing yourself to belong without being the organizer, rescuer, or strongest person in the room.
This is not a promise that every pattern will vanish in five days. It is a supported beginning in which your awareness acquires a usable method and your choices begin to reflect the woman you are becoming.
Take Home What You Become
From the Creator of The Reset Reactor Residency ™
Give Your Life Room to Breathe
I chose Isla Verde for Blossom: Becoming You™ because its serene beach reflects our work. The ocean moves, withdraws, and returns; women, too, can spend years shaping themselves for others. Here, they can explore what’s possible when they no longer have to.
Beside Isla Verde Beach’s turquoise waters and soft sands, our intimate oceanfront setting blends natural wood, earth tones, and organic textures with contemporary comfort. Like the Spring Reactor, it grounds you while welcoming new life and giving you space to slow down without losing yourself.
The beach is part of the Residency, not merely a backdrop. Start the day listening to the surf or complete your Reset Reactor Reflections beneath an umbrella after recognizing a pattern in an Immersion. For those accustomed to being useful, accepting a lounge chair and tableside service can be practice in receiving, not always giving.
At the meeting of sand and sea, be still as life moves, let thoughts arrive without solving them, and choose when to connect or return to yourself. In these moments, an emerging identity takes shape.
Together, we’ll explore Old San Juan’s color and history, share intimate conversations, and enjoy a rooftop dinner, sisterhood, and the quiet luxury of your own company.
We chose Puerto Rico because becoming needs both: room to be witnessed and room to listen to yourself.
Beachfront Bohemian Luxury in Isla Verde-airy, organic suites with raw wood, ceramics, and a rooftop bar for the modern soul seeker.
Sustainable luxury set on one of San Juan’s loveliest stretches of sand
Experience laid‑back luxury on Puerto Rico’s coast: sustainably designed suites steps from the beach, a Japanese‑inspired rooftop bar and a vibe that’s earthy, handmade and effortlessly chic.
Meet the Co-Founder
Demetriah Annenayah
Co-Founder of Apprise.life • Creator of Sacred Feminine Design™ & The Reset Reactor Ecosystem
Apprise.life was founded by Demetriah Annenayah, a systems thinker, facilitator, and strategist whose work focuses on helping women recalibrate their lives, leadership, and prosperity through embodied, cyclical, and practical design.
With over two decades of experience guiding women through identity transitions, burnout recovery, leadership evolution, and purpose realignment, Demetriah developed Sacred Feminine Design™ as a response to what she saw missing in both personal development and leadership spaces: integration.
Her work bridges structure and embodiment—bringing together nervous system regulation, relational intelligence, decision-making frameworks, and real-world leadership application. Rather than teaching ideology, she designs environments where clarity becomes embodied and sustainable change can occur.
Demetriah is known for creating high-integrity containers—from immersive retreats to executive leadership experiences—where women are supported without being fixed and empowered without being overwhelmed. Her facilitation style is grounded, precise, and deeply respectful of women who carry responsibility, vision, and influence.
Through Apprise.life, she leads the development of:
Sacred Feminine Design™ (flagship life and leadership framework)
Reset Reactor™(nervous-system-first recalibration experiences)
S.A.C.R.E.D™ Executive ERG Programs for women in leadership and organizations
Demetriah Annenayah’s work is not about becoming someone new—it’s about restoring coherence, authority, and alignment so women can lead their lives from a place that is resourced, clear, and sustainable.
YOUR RESIDENCY BEGINS WITH A CONVERSATION
There is one universal Reset Reactor Residency™ inquiry form, used on this page and all seasonal location pages.
Tell us what is drawing you to this moment, which Residency location or locations interest you, and whether you are exploring for yourself, a group, or a business.
Your responses help us understand your intentions and start a personal conversation.
Inquiries are reviewed individually. If we invite you to proceed, we'll share accommodation options, investment information, participation terms, and enrollment instructions privately.
Submitting the inquiry does not constitute acceptance, confirm a suite, or complete enrollment.
You may be arriving with a desire, a decision, or a life pattern you can no longer ignore. Tell us what brings you toward the Reset Reactor Residency™ and which seasonal experiences interest you.
This one inquiry starts our conversation.
What it does is tell us:
I am interested. I am ready to know more. Keep me close to what is opening next.
Your Residency Inquiry Includes Priority Access To
First notice when new Residency dates and destinations open
Early access to accommodation and room selections
Priority communication before broader public enrollment
Residency details, pricing, preparation, and next steps
Opportunities to join future destination Residencies as they are announced
The Reset Reactor Rhythm™: The Sovereignty Seasonality of Your Residency
I created the Reset Reactor Rhythm™ because I learned a quiet truth the hard way: your life moves in seasons, and the patterns keeping you safe in one season will slowly starve you in the next.
We all know what it feels like to understand your patterns intellectually, but knowing why you overgive in love, freeze up around money decisions, or perform in your intimacy, and still watch your hands carry out the old habit anyway, is a guilt trip on steroids.
That is because long-term identities don't live in your intellect. They live in your nervous system, your daily strategy, your belief systems, the subtle ways you protect yourself when vulnerability demands more than you think you can give because they are conditioned and learned.
That is why The Reset Reactor Residency™ is built on a rhythm, not a finish line.
The Methodology of Your Seasons
Love, Sex, & Money were never meant to be areas of your life where you constantly hustle, struggle, stress, and prove you deserve to receive. They were meant to be your natural birthrights, unfurling in sync with the rhythms of your life.
When spring calls for expansion, the Rhythm helps you gain new visibility without defaulting to the Achiever who controls everything.
When summer demands heat and pleasure, the Rhythm teaches you how to surrender and receive yourself with deep intimacy without slipping into the Performer.
When autumn asks for inventory, the Rhythm gives you the exact exit strategy to shed old financial scarcity before it claims your harvest and your heart.
When winter requires rest, the Rhythm grounds you so deeply that quiet stillness feels like power, stripping you down to your bare essence and arriving at your own inner authority, not the passive vulnerability of a soft life.
A System You Carry for Life
We do not try to erase decades of conditioning in one emotional breakthrough. Instead, each turn of the Reset Reactor Rhythm™ dismantles the old identity’s authority, moving you through Recognition, Interruption, Recalibration, Integration, and Stabilization.
You are not starting over with every new season; you are moving deeper into your own sovereignty. When a new level of love activates an old fear, or a new level of wealth exposes an ancient survival strategy, you will no longer wonder what went wrong. You will simply recognize the transition, meet it with the framework, and consciously choose the woman who leads next.
At the Heart of Our Reset Reactor Residency™
Our Reset Reactor Residency™
THREE DAYS. FIVE DAYS. TEN DAYS. YOUR RESET MEETS THE MOMENT YOU SAY, “YES”
Reset Reactor Residency’s range from 3–10 days, depending on the season, location, and depth of the experience.
Some are concentrated weekend intensives. Others give us enough time to move through deeper private work, Sacred Feminine Design experiences, Soul Contract and Divine Timing application, embodiment, meals, pleasure, exploration, rest, and integration without rushing from revelation to revelation.
Every Residency has its own Sovereignty within its season.
Every woman arrives with her own story.
But the promise remains beautifully simple:
You will not be asked to lose yourself. You’ll be required to embody your whole self
You will be supported in releasing the identities that have made it difficult to live as the woman you already know yourself to be.
And together, we build the bridge between who you had to become and where you were born to go.
Up Next Reset Reactor Residency™
CALIFORNIA
5-Day Reset Reactor Residency™
July 1-5th, 2027
Your Summer of Surrender™ begins the next evolution of the Reset Reactor Residency™.
This will be a destination residency with more room for immersive Reset Reactor Rhythm, Sacred Feminine Design, Soul Contract + Divine Timing, private strategy, pleasure, exploration, recovery, and the deeper conversation around purpose, gifts, and the sacred life you no longer want divided between who you are privately and whom the world gets to experience.
Applications and deposits will open before we announce the final residence.
The home is ’t what makes this immersion a Residency. It’s the women who commit to it.
The women, the framework, the intimacy, and the structure to maintain your reset.
Accepted residents will receive complete information on residence, travel, accommodation, preparation, and payment as details are finalized.
Ask about ourWomen’ in Leadership Cohort or Corporate Buyout for any of our 3-10 Day Reset Reactor Residency™
The Reset Reactor Residency
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The Residency is designed for the space between recognizing a pattern and responding differently when it appears. You will have time to bring that understanding into decisions, conversations, boundaries, and practices that relate to your own life.
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No. You may begin an inquiry whether you or already part of the Apprise.Life community. Your inquiry helps us understand your readiness for the Residency.
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You can express a preference for a City View King Suite, Ocean View King Suite, or City and Partial Ocean View King Suite during the inquiry and private enrollment process. Availability and your specific accommodation are confirmed during enrollment. Each Residency is a limited immersion to a minimal number of participants.
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Investment, accommodation options, package inclusions, and payment terms are shared privately through the personal review and invitation process, before payment is requested.
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Yes. You are responsible for arranging and paying for your own airfare and travel. Arrival guidance and details of any arranged local transportation will be included in your enrollment information. Please wait for written enrollment confirmation before booking nonrefundable travel.
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Enrollment covers the complete March 15–20, 2027 stay and required attendance of the Reset Reactor Rhythm. The shared rhythm of the experience gives you time to participate, reflect, and practice across the five nights together.
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You decide what you share. You may communicate a boundary, request a pause, and discuss sensitive matters privately. Participation in an individual practice remains your choice.
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The Residency is a spiritual, educational, leadership, and personal development experience. It does not provide medical care or psychotherapy. Your experience and the changes you carry forward will be personal to you; no particular result is guaranteed.
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Because the Reset Reactor Residency™ is an intimate residential experience, accommodations, event spaces, excursions, and private services are arranged in advance for our confirmed residents.
A specific refund and cancellation policy applies to each Residency. Approved applicants will receive the complete terms, including deposit requirements, cancellation deadlines, and any applicable refund or credit provisions, before making a payment.
We encourage you to review these terms carefully and consider purchasing travel insurance to protect against unexpected changes to your plans.
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Yes. A deposit is required to secure your place in the Reset Reactor Residency™ once your application has been personally reviewed and approved.
Upon acceptance, you will receive a private enrollment invitation outlining your selected accommodations, total Residency investment, required deposit, available payment options, and important payment deadlines.
Payments will be processed through Apprise.Life™ using the secure payment instructions provided in your enrollment invitation. Your Residency and accommodations are confirmed once your required enrollment agreements and deposit have been received.
Please do not submit a payment before receiving your official acceptance and enrollment instructions.